First of all, consider the total number of alphabets that make the words ‘poverty’ and ‘wealth’. No doubt, we have a total of 13 alphabets. Let us picture each alphabet as a layer. In all, we have 13 layers. On the other hand, consider a pyramid. Imagine a 13-layer inscription on the pyramid.
Interpreting the Realionaire’s approach to wealth and poverty y, using the pyramidal concept, we will be viewing the strictly the first, mid and apex layers as the positions of people living in poverty, people living in average conditions and individuals who are said to be the world’s richest respectively.
Again, considering the 13-layer inscription in respect to worth, tantamount to monetary evaluations (dollars, the currency name to be used), the three major inscriptions will be defined. The first-layer inscription refers to people who are living on or less than 1/1000th of a thousand dollars (one dollar) on a daily basis. The mid-layer inscription, the position held by the average person, refers to those who are at the 6.5 mean mark, whose worth is basically in thousands of dollars and are able to afford the necessities and luxuries of life at optimum levels. The apex layer refers to the position held by individuals who are not only at the 13th layer but considered the richest in the 13-layer pyramidal inscription and worth several millions, billions and even trillions of dollars.
In a way, the apex layer is a culmination of the collective efforts of other layers, financially, materially and intelligence wise. The mid-layer is somewhat a ‘stagnation’ between the layers leading to the apex and the layers leading to the first layer. The first layer is the ‘suppression’ or ‘pressure mount’ by other layers.
Interestingly, individuals occupying the apex position attain this feat through over-the-years hardwork, dedication, focus, patience, investment, patience, inheritance gathered and determination on legitimate basis and or an illegitimate exploitation of the resources of their subjects, individually or collectively. The mid-layer position is occupied by those who have over the years scaled through the sub-layers and are apparently stuck at the 6.5 mean mark. The first- layer position is occupied by those who appear to be surmounted by them.
Ironically, there is always a constancy; change in the positions of people occupying the first, apex and mid layers. In other words, the individual occupying the first- layer may scale through the layers to the mid or even the apex layer or decide to stay put, the occupant of the mid-layer may scale higher, remain stagnant or drastically decline towards the first-layer. Also, the apex-occupying position holders can scale through even higher; afford to remain at that position and may go down the ladder of the layers to the mid or to worsen matters, the first layer! To justify these facts, there are historic accounts of individuals whose wealth increased and dropped to below-average standards and even poverty levels. In fact, their successes in terms of monetary worth follow the changes in the positions they occupy in the 13-layer pyramidal structure (precisely, individuals, from humble backgrounds, rising to world’s richest business gurus, people from middle-classed families, rising from, dropping to or being stagnant in the layer they find themselves and the ‘rises’ and ‘falls’ of the apex and first-position holders). However, many of us, irrespective of the layer (level of financial space) we find ourselves, anticipate a rise. How can best take that rise?
The Realionaire’s approach is a come-to-stay recognition which provides individuals with advantages to face-lift their worth by climbing steadily through the ladder, layers of financial space, irrespective of opposing circumstances by placing various levels of self investment; knowledge acquisition, empowerment, focus, determination, inspiration, development of relational skill development and a goal-getting orientation which is equivalent to the recognized monetary values (thousands, millions, billions and even trillions).
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
Ben4realla@yahoo.com
+2348062162220
Monday, August 2, 2010
Seven irrefutable facts associated with business success
Ever wondered why the United States is undoubtedly one of the world’s most successful business nations? Do you know why few individuals attain mega success, even in not-auspicious conditions while others realize a tip of their deserved iceberg? The answer is simple: it is in the demonstrated and not-considered Seven Irrefutable Facts Associated With Business Success. What are they?
The following elucidates in succinct terms the seven irrefutable facts associated with business success.
1) Defining the orientation of the business: The most fundamentally important factor which is inevitable to business success; definition rather than ambiguity. Precisely, establishing business goals; vision and mission statements, aims and objectives are sine qua non, the catalyst starters of business success.
2) Knowledge Acquisition: In consonance with set business goals, reading related and up-to-date business materials; journals, articles, books and other forms of business-disseminated messages, information-consciousness, development of relational skills, relating with individuals in the same business arena; learning lessons from their experiences, their ‘Dos’ and ‘Do-nots’ approach to the business, strengths and weaknesses, seeking for inspiration that breathe intuition and ingenuity are facts associated with business success.
3) Maintaining a positive attitude: The decision to maintain a positive mindset is tantamount to consistency, focus, patience and persistence needed for the continued thriving of the defined business. Owing to certain information which are generally unfavourable, the need to keep a positive psyche becomes essential in order to achieve anticipated business success.
4) Taking calculated risks: Considering the level of knowledge acquired and set goals, success in business is unequivocally made possible by the risks taken. In business dynamics, the statement; ‘leap before you look’ is a motto of successful business men and women. However, a full grasp of acquired knowledge empowers successful business giants to take computed risks in the pursuit of progress in the businesses they engage themselves. No business enterprise have attained eventual mega success and continually thrived with paying the price, taking risks.
5) Minimizing losses and Maximizing profits: A follow-up to the embarked-upon calculated risks, understanding the core of business success lies in the ability to minimize losses and maximize profits. Granted, the essence of any successful business is to realize profit. At times, loss sets in. However, prioritizing maximized profits and limiting to the barest minimum losses are also essential to business success.
6) Taking responsibility for business actions: In the making of an entrepreneur or investor, a chief executive officer or a managing director, certain outcomes of business actions and decisions; low or high turn-over rates, profits or losses, surplus or deficit account reconciliations should be the responsibility of the would-be successful business man or woman, rather than taking excuses for lapses, blaming others for negative imbalances or being too self-concerned (taking credits for all positive business outcomes instead of acknowledging the efforts of others). Instead, through an organized win-win strategy in terms of demonstrating a relational carry-along disposition, business success can be fostered by accepting responsibilities as the business’ ‘watch dog’ for any good or bad outcome and subsequently improving on it or providing its corrections via the co-operation of others.
7) Being investment-minded: This is a mindset, resident in the lives of individuals who want to experience mega business success; setting the pace for others to follow, trailblazers in the endeavours they engage themselves and role models for prospective business men and women. Of all kinds of existing business attachments (employee, self-employed, business owner and investor attachments), the investor attachment is the one whose success in relation to its advantages edge others; pays low taxes, very likely to escape the government debt bracket, gets richer and makes money do the working, permitting privacy to the concerned attaché.
Andrew Carnegie, a one-time U.S president once said: ‘America’s business is business’. Like the American dream, ‘you can be anything that you want to be’, as a (prospective) business man or woman, you can be the business success you are by considering and demonstrating these irrefutable facts.
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
Ben4realla@yahoo.com
+2348062162220
The following elucidates in succinct terms the seven irrefutable facts associated with business success.
1) Defining the orientation of the business: The most fundamentally important factor which is inevitable to business success; definition rather than ambiguity. Precisely, establishing business goals; vision and mission statements, aims and objectives are sine qua non, the catalyst starters of business success.
2) Knowledge Acquisition: In consonance with set business goals, reading related and up-to-date business materials; journals, articles, books and other forms of business-disseminated messages, information-consciousness, development of relational skills, relating with individuals in the same business arena; learning lessons from their experiences, their ‘Dos’ and ‘Do-nots’ approach to the business, strengths and weaknesses, seeking for inspiration that breathe intuition and ingenuity are facts associated with business success.
3) Maintaining a positive attitude: The decision to maintain a positive mindset is tantamount to consistency, focus, patience and persistence needed for the continued thriving of the defined business. Owing to certain information which are generally unfavourable, the need to keep a positive psyche becomes essential in order to achieve anticipated business success.
4) Taking calculated risks: Considering the level of knowledge acquired and set goals, success in business is unequivocally made possible by the risks taken. In business dynamics, the statement; ‘leap before you look’ is a motto of successful business men and women. However, a full grasp of acquired knowledge empowers successful business giants to take computed risks in the pursuit of progress in the businesses they engage themselves. No business enterprise have attained eventual mega success and continually thrived with paying the price, taking risks.
5) Minimizing losses and Maximizing profits: A follow-up to the embarked-upon calculated risks, understanding the core of business success lies in the ability to minimize losses and maximize profits. Granted, the essence of any successful business is to realize profit. At times, loss sets in. However, prioritizing maximized profits and limiting to the barest minimum losses are also essential to business success.
6) Taking responsibility for business actions: In the making of an entrepreneur or investor, a chief executive officer or a managing director, certain outcomes of business actions and decisions; low or high turn-over rates, profits or losses, surplus or deficit account reconciliations should be the responsibility of the would-be successful business man or woman, rather than taking excuses for lapses, blaming others for negative imbalances or being too self-concerned (taking credits for all positive business outcomes instead of acknowledging the efforts of others). Instead, through an organized win-win strategy in terms of demonstrating a relational carry-along disposition, business success can be fostered by accepting responsibilities as the business’ ‘watch dog’ for any good or bad outcome and subsequently improving on it or providing its corrections via the co-operation of others.
7) Being investment-minded: This is a mindset, resident in the lives of individuals who want to experience mega business success; setting the pace for others to follow, trailblazers in the endeavours they engage themselves and role models for prospective business men and women. Of all kinds of existing business attachments (employee, self-employed, business owner and investor attachments), the investor attachment is the one whose success in relation to its advantages edge others; pays low taxes, very likely to escape the government debt bracket, gets richer and makes money do the working, permitting privacy to the concerned attaché.
Andrew Carnegie, a one-time U.S president once said: ‘America’s business is business’. Like the American dream, ‘you can be anything that you want to be’, as a (prospective) business man or woman, you can be the business success you are by considering and demonstrating these irrefutable facts.
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
Ben4realla@yahoo.com
+2348062162220
Monday, July 26, 2010
THE GOVERNMENT AND PEOPLE_ THE EATER, CUTLERIES AND FOOD CONCEPT
More often than not, people, all around the world complain bitterly and assert the importance of their relevance to the state. However, if we are to critically look into the questions: ‘who is the government?’ and ‘who are the people?’, it can be said that the dynamics into the crucial nature of the asked questions are profound. Why?
Quite a number of individuals are of the view a government is an organized socio-political and economic body, consisting of people-elected persons, on-seat political representatives or to-the-throne monarchs and the general masses of a particular geographic entity. On the other hand, the people are seen as the masses that possess rights and obligations to their nations of citizenry. On the contrary, are these definitions potent enough to describe the government and people?
Believe it or not, the government, from the era of the supreme and great Babylonian empire to our present disposition, has been, is and will always be ahead of the people. How and why?
Consider this instance: You had in mind to go to a restaurant nearby, knowing the kind of food delicacy or combination to select from in the waiter’s menu, expenses to be incurred and the kind of cutleries to be used. Of course, you had gotten a picture of what to do at the restaurant based on the plans you have. The cutleries have no idea of being used to get started the eating process. Should there be inconveniences observed when using the cutleries, it would be reasonable of you to request that the waiter provide you another replacement.
This analogy explains the edge of the government has over the people. By analysis, the individual, that is, you, having in mind to go to a nearby restaurant to eat can be construed as the brainwork (intent) of the government to orchestrate certain agenda_politica, economical, social and so on to be executed or passed into law. ‘Knowing the kind of food delicacy or combination to select from…’ can be interpreted as government-set array of targets or goals that can be attained within the bounds of its sovereignty. The ‘cutleries’ refer to the people. The ‘picture’ pinpoints at the visualization of how realizable set government strategies are (analogous to the individual having in mind to eat at the restaurant). By implication, the cutleries, having no idea of being used to get started the eating process refers to the oblivion of the people towards the government’s intended plans. Asking the waiter to replace the use of cutleries because of inconveniences observed means the government has the power to ‘replace’ certain people who obstruct or impede the actualization of its objectives. The government is also ware of the sacrifice to be made or price to be paid to realize its goals. Hence, the phrase, ‘… expenses to be incurred…’ ‘… The kind of cutleries to be used’ simply refers to a set or group of individuals that will not only pose problems to governmental decisions and plans but will carry out to the letter its orchestrations. The food delicacy or combination refers to certain activities, dues, and other interests that the people are to offer; tax payment, productivity, civic duties and other domestic and professional expenses.
In all, the government is ahead of its citizens (subjects), courtesy of information advantage (similar to having in mind to eat at the restaurant and subsequent actions toward realizing it without the knowing of the cutleries!). Information advantage is originally of its own laid-down standards and appreciation of the quality of information, possessed by exceptional people in a ‘crowd’ of masses by ‘specially’ setting them aside to join its train of dominance thereby toting to its reservoir of ‘for-all-ages’ quality information.
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
Ben4realla@yahoo.com
+2348062162220
Quite a number of individuals are of the view a government is an organized socio-political and economic body, consisting of people-elected persons, on-seat political representatives or to-the-throne monarchs and the general masses of a particular geographic entity. On the other hand, the people are seen as the masses that possess rights and obligations to their nations of citizenry. On the contrary, are these definitions potent enough to describe the government and people?
Believe it or not, the government, from the era of the supreme and great Babylonian empire to our present disposition, has been, is and will always be ahead of the people. How and why?
Consider this instance: You had in mind to go to a restaurant nearby, knowing the kind of food delicacy or combination to select from in the waiter’s menu, expenses to be incurred and the kind of cutleries to be used. Of course, you had gotten a picture of what to do at the restaurant based on the plans you have. The cutleries have no idea of being used to get started the eating process. Should there be inconveniences observed when using the cutleries, it would be reasonable of you to request that the waiter provide you another replacement.
This analogy explains the edge of the government has over the people. By analysis, the individual, that is, you, having in mind to go to a nearby restaurant to eat can be construed as the brainwork (intent) of the government to orchestrate certain agenda_politica, economical, social and so on to be executed or passed into law. ‘Knowing the kind of food delicacy or combination to select from…’ can be interpreted as government-set array of targets or goals that can be attained within the bounds of its sovereignty. The ‘cutleries’ refer to the people. The ‘picture’ pinpoints at the visualization of how realizable set government strategies are (analogous to the individual having in mind to eat at the restaurant). By implication, the cutleries, having no idea of being used to get started the eating process refers to the oblivion of the people towards the government’s intended plans. Asking the waiter to replace the use of cutleries because of inconveniences observed means the government has the power to ‘replace’ certain people who obstruct or impede the actualization of its objectives. The government is also ware of the sacrifice to be made or price to be paid to realize its goals. Hence, the phrase, ‘… expenses to be incurred…’ ‘… The kind of cutleries to be used’ simply refers to a set or group of individuals that will not only pose problems to governmental decisions and plans but will carry out to the letter its orchestrations. The food delicacy or combination refers to certain activities, dues, and other interests that the people are to offer; tax payment, productivity, civic duties and other domestic and professional expenses.
In all, the government is ahead of its citizens (subjects), courtesy of information advantage (similar to having in mind to eat at the restaurant and subsequent actions toward realizing it without the knowing of the cutleries!). Information advantage is originally of its own laid-down standards and appreciation of the quality of information, possessed by exceptional people in a ‘crowd’ of masses by ‘specially’ setting them aside to join its train of dominance thereby toting to its reservoir of ‘for-all-ages’ quality information.
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
Ben4realla@yahoo.com
+2348062162220
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
SEVEN RARELY TOLD TRUTHS ABOUT PRE-MARITAL SEX
The following point at the irrefutable assertions that immensely constitute rarely told assertions on pre-marital sex (before-marriage sexual intercourse), as they affect relationships and marriages of individuals involved.
1) People, especially women, who had engaged in sex-linked relationships, were really used as sex objects, a tool for sexual gratification. Like a disposable medical syringe, they were ‘used’ and ‘dumped’ by their partners.
2) If not of a truly chaste disposition, rarely can you find a man not cheating on his wife (vice versa), with or without each other knowing.
3) Given a space of ten chances, a man who is not of a truly chaste character, either in a relationship or married, the possibility he will not cheat on his wife is tentatively two out of ten, at most. On the other hand, for a woman portraying the same character, whether she is in a relationship or married, the possibility, given the same condition is tentatively four out of ten, at most.
4) The moment an unmarried lady allows herself to be sexually touched by a man outside the context of marriage has made herself replaceable; likely to be treated like and substituted for other ‘better’ women
5) If not particularly careful, an habitual fornicator will become an adulterer or adulteress
6) As a result of engaging in pre-marital sex, most married women end up ‘sharing’ their husbands with other women, preferably younger, knowingly or unknowingly. Just as what happens to soldiers who embark on an onslaught against their opposition in the field of battle without necessarily protecting their units, women who are aware of their husbands’ illicit affairs with women will go out, leaving their homes, all in the name of marital security (protecting their husbands from the hands of intruders).You can answer for yourself what happens to their homes. The oblivious women will, until they get to unearth their husbands’ can of worms with other women, abuse the sanctity of their marriages while protecting their homes.
7) Nature has an order. It is an arrangement. For instance, what you sow, you shall reap. A not-chaste man who marries a chaste woman is like a car driver headed for a ghastly marital accident (vice versa). Nature is an equilibrium set-up on its own
Therefore, to combat the consequences of fornication, there must be a practically changed persona and ability to use the spiritual in terms of fervent prayers to ‘uproot’ the initially sown seed of fornication. Let he who has ears, let him hear and let he who has eyes, let him see
Ihekuna chimezie benedict
1) People, especially women, who had engaged in sex-linked relationships, were really used as sex objects, a tool for sexual gratification. Like a disposable medical syringe, they were ‘used’ and ‘dumped’ by their partners.
2) If not of a truly chaste disposition, rarely can you find a man not cheating on his wife (vice versa), with or without each other knowing.
3) Given a space of ten chances, a man who is not of a truly chaste character, either in a relationship or married, the possibility he will not cheat on his wife is tentatively two out of ten, at most. On the other hand, for a woman portraying the same character, whether she is in a relationship or married, the possibility, given the same condition is tentatively four out of ten, at most.
4) The moment an unmarried lady allows herself to be sexually touched by a man outside the context of marriage has made herself replaceable; likely to be treated like and substituted for other ‘better’ women
5) If not particularly careful, an habitual fornicator will become an adulterer or adulteress
6) As a result of engaging in pre-marital sex, most married women end up ‘sharing’ their husbands with other women, preferably younger, knowingly or unknowingly. Just as what happens to soldiers who embark on an onslaught against their opposition in the field of battle without necessarily protecting their units, women who are aware of their husbands’ illicit affairs with women will go out, leaving their homes, all in the name of marital security (protecting their husbands from the hands of intruders).You can answer for yourself what happens to their homes. The oblivious women will, until they get to unearth their husbands’ can of worms with other women, abuse the sanctity of their marriages while protecting their homes.
7) Nature has an order. It is an arrangement. For instance, what you sow, you shall reap. A not-chaste man who marries a chaste woman is like a car driver headed for a ghastly marital accident (vice versa). Nature is an equilibrium set-up on its own
Therefore, to combat the consequences of fornication, there must be a practically changed persona and ability to use the spiritual in terms of fervent prayers to ‘uproot’ the initially sown seed of fornication. Let he who has ears, let him hear and let he who has eyes, let him see
Ihekuna chimezie benedict
AUTHOR INFORMATION
NAME OF AUTHOR: IHEKUNA CHIMEZIE BENEDICT
TITLE OF BOOK: AN OVERVIEW OF ENGI (O) SOPHY… A PAHSE OF TRUE MODERNIZATION
E-MAIL ADDRESS BEN4REALLA@YAHOO.COM
ABOUT THE BOOK
Humans, plants, animals and other existing non-living entities can be found in a ‘name’ called the world. Simply, the world is physically and generally accepted name given to the mentioned entities found in it. Picture a situation where all human recognition, that is, fields of interest, are found in one name_ a name given to all fields of human endeavour.
This masterpiece gives an of the importance of the overview of the come-to-stay Engi (o) sophy through the following recognition
1) The Inspiration_Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)-The general public perspective: It sheds light using an appropriate approach mechanism to better explain issues affecting the commoner and the general public, for instance, poverty.
2) The Inspiration_Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs) _The educational/academic perspective: This aimed at serving as an upgrading or improving aid of the education sector of any nation, especially at tertiary levels, willing to give it an ‘embrace’.
3) The Inspiration_Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)_The practical perspective :It is a ‘see-me-through’ (version) of the paper-written Engi(o)sophy. It is aimed at giving every Tom, Dick and Harry a conviction of Engi (o) sophy’s dynamics.
An overview of Engi (o) sophy is a must-have and must-read classic which cuts across all races, status and backgrounds.Engi (o) sophy is the re-definition of all mankind’s recognized interests, a phase of true modernization on the grounds of creative wisdom. It simply means ‘Continuum (continued improvement or modification) Of Intricacies’ and a direct translation of ‘Creative Wisdom’.
Date of manuscript completion; October 18, 2008
Year of Birth: July 12, 1984
Contacts: +2348062162220
Ben4realla@yahoo.com
Mrbenisrea@gmail.com
TITLE OF BOOK: AN OVERVIEW OF ENGI (O) SOPHY… A PAHSE OF TRUE MODERNIZATION
E-MAIL ADDRESS BEN4REALLA@YAHOO.COM
ABOUT THE BOOK
Humans, plants, animals and other existing non-living entities can be found in a ‘name’ called the world. Simply, the world is physically and generally accepted name given to the mentioned entities found in it. Picture a situation where all human recognition, that is, fields of interest, are found in one name_ a name given to all fields of human endeavour.
This masterpiece gives an of the importance of the overview of the come-to-stay Engi (o) sophy through the following recognition
1) The Inspiration_Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)-The general public perspective: It sheds light using an appropriate approach mechanism to better explain issues affecting the commoner and the general public, for instance, poverty.
2) The Inspiration_Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs) _The educational/academic perspective: This aimed at serving as an upgrading or improving aid of the education sector of any nation, especially at tertiary levels, willing to give it an ‘embrace’.
3) The Inspiration_Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)_The practical perspective :It is a ‘see-me-through’ (version) of the paper-written Engi(o)sophy. It is aimed at giving every Tom, Dick and Harry a conviction of Engi (o) sophy’s dynamics.
An overview of Engi (o) sophy is a must-have and must-read classic which cuts across all races, status and backgrounds.Engi (o) sophy is the re-definition of all mankind’s recognized interests, a phase of true modernization on the grounds of creative wisdom. It simply means ‘Continuum (continued improvement or modification) Of Intricacies’ and a direct translation of ‘Creative Wisdom’.
Date of manuscript completion; October 18, 2008
Year of Birth: July 12, 1984
Contacts: +2348062162220
Ben4realla@yahoo.com
Mrbenisrea@gmail.com
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
WHAT YOU DO NOT KNOW ABOUT YOUR MAN and WHAT YOU DO NOT KNOW ABOUT YOUR WOMAN
To be realistic, what do you know about your man? How well are you grounded in terms of information you have about him? Do you know his past experiences, his present dealings and future plans? Based on what you know, what makes you think he is your Mr. .Right? What attracted him to you? Remember, men are generally moved by what they see.
Without a doubt, three basic things unquestionably attract people that is, money or expressed property, sex and religion or spirituality. However, our attention is on the male gender.
To begin with, more often than not, what attracts men to ladies is possession of financial or material resources. In a sense, men get lured to women, willing to ‘spoil’ them by extravagantly lavishing them with what they desire. The naturally logic-driven men outsmart them, if it is observed that the money-spinning ladies they are in relationships with are not exhibiting a financially ostentatious disposition as they used to. Sometimes, owing to material possession the ladies have at their disposal, they arguably marry them and subsequently wait for the slightest opportunity to file divorce suits in order to part away with financial fortunes. To be frank, if you are rich, are sure your so-called Mr. Right is in a relationship with or married to you because of what you physically possess?
Second, the issue of sexuality is undoubtedly a factor that attracts quite a number of men to ladies. The inability of most men to properly manage their sexuality has inevitably forced them into engaging in self-gratifying relationships with different women. In fact, some men engage in relationships with women solely for sex, not knowing that such ground is transient. Hence, demise in relationship or marriage ensues amongst them. Personally, is your man keeping his fidelity for you alone?
Furthermore, spirituality is one of the major factors that attract men to different women. Some men are unfortunately not serious about spiritual affairs. Some are but others use the multi-faceted-in-nature issue as guise to ‘get’ their Mrs. Rights. After executing this figured-out aim, they call it ‘quit’ to compulsory spiritual commitments. Is your man truly spiritually conscious?
To crown it all, the potencies of answers given to the previously asked questions can be demonstrated using the yardsticks, the three basic forces of physical attraction
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
+2348062162220
Without a doubt, three basic things unquestionably attract people that is, money or expressed property, sex and religion or spirituality. However, our attention is on the male gender.
To begin with, more often than not, what attracts men to ladies is possession of financial or material resources. In a sense, men get lured to women, willing to ‘spoil’ them by extravagantly lavishing them with what they desire. The naturally logic-driven men outsmart them, if it is observed that the money-spinning ladies they are in relationships with are not exhibiting a financially ostentatious disposition as they used to. Sometimes, owing to material possession the ladies have at their disposal, they arguably marry them and subsequently wait for the slightest opportunity to file divorce suits in order to part away with financial fortunes. To be frank, if you are rich, are sure your so-called Mr. Right is in a relationship with or married to you because of what you physically possess?
Second, the issue of sexuality is undoubtedly a factor that attracts quite a number of men to ladies. The inability of most men to properly manage their sexuality has inevitably forced them into engaging in self-gratifying relationships with different women. In fact, some men engage in relationships with women solely for sex, not knowing that such ground is transient. Hence, demise in relationship or marriage ensues amongst them. Personally, is your man keeping his fidelity for you alone?
Furthermore, spirituality is one of the major factors that attract men to different women. Some men are unfortunately not serious about spiritual affairs. Some are but others use the multi-faceted-in-nature issue as guise to ‘get’ their Mrs. Rights. After executing this figured-out aim, they call it ‘quit’ to compulsory spiritual commitments. Is your man truly spiritually conscious?
To crown it all, the potencies of answers given to the previously asked questions can be demonstrated using the yardsticks, the three basic forces of physical attraction
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
+2348062162220
Monday, May 24, 2010
Seven Wrongs Associated With Christians
In many churches, there are ways which many Christians apparently depict hospitality and a ‘worth-it’ welcome to visitors. Not bad per se, the ‘welcome’ and special treatments, so-called love feasts administered to new church comers, follow-ups and other necessary welfare packages leave much to be desired. The question is: ‘Are they really portraying the true Christian character?’
Over the years, Christians have unequivocally depicted hypocrisy in various which no doubts have questioned the ground and pillar of all divine truths, the church. Granted, some Christians would obviously not want to read this write-up, perhaps, owing to its not-encouraging undertones. However, it is the truth that we know that sets us free, as Christians. Therefore, we will consider seven recognized wrong acts associated with Christians.
To begin with, a wrong act many Christians are fond of is the ‘Sunday-Sunday’ call to service. As a matter of obligation, they have taken the responsibility to attend church services only on the Holy day, Sunday, perhaps, owing to their background and influence of other people .In a way, they see Christianity as a routine and the church as the platform where such a routine can be excercised.However, what they fail to realize is that Christianity is no religion but a lifestyle which must be cultivated on a daily basis to appreciate its eternal existence.
Second, ‘chameleon’ Christians frown at what they do best outside the enclosure of the church-pre-marital sex and adultery. Whence these issues are mentioned, they frown, a sign of insecurity and guilt, apparently taking offences at the words spoken by the preacher. Really, these are what they do when not in church. They claim the ‘holier than thou’ attitude.
Besides, many Christians are fond of deliberately committing different forms of ‘notice-me’ services. In fact, they commit themselves to certain functions that draw the attention of their superiors in church for the sake of favours and other attachments. Once they get what they so desire, they disappear into thin air! What a pity!
Moreover, in churches, it is noticeable that a number of Christians keep caucuses that recognize themselves as groups in the church, instead of playing equal host to all other members of the congregation, irrespective of status. Though they seem to treat other members of the church fairly well, they are realistically self-centered as the groups they come under are concerned about themselves rather than the interests of other members.
Furthermore, many single ladies who are Christians become suspiciously dedicated to the affairs of the church with the aim of settling down with their discerned ‘Mr. Rights’. There are several instances were ladies who succeed in attaining their motives abruptly avoid and in no time, completely stop attending church services.
As a matter of fact, some Christians have succeeded in creating amongst themselves enmity by destructively criticizing the derogating the actions of their fellow brethren and even their spiritual leaders. Funny enough, they camouflage themselves as ‘meant-for-good’ Christians but realistically pose more harm than good. They oppose certain activities done in the church by their superiors and other brethren. On a second thought, if critically looked into, we will discover that the reasons for their opposition do not hold waters!
Quite a lot of Christians are on the exodus of seeking for perfect or ideal churches. Interestingly, they claim to be active members of their currently attended churches. However, they spiritually prostitute themselves from one church to the other in search of the perfect church of their choice. They fail to come to the recognition that there are no ideal churches and until they strive together with other Bible-believing Christians towards perfecting themselves as the church, that is, the body of Christ, such fugitive exercise will be tantamount to a wild goose chase.
In a nut shell, as Christians, it is about time we obliterated hypocrisy and wholeheartedly embraced the efficacies of the ground and pillar of all truths, the church. Paraphrasing John 4: 23, Jesus asserted that they that worship Him must do so is spirit and in truth. By inference, hypocrisy is carnal and untrue. Hence, in the relentless of pursuit to attain our life-long aspiration, perfection, should we carry along these habits of hypocrisy (Remember, we ought to be the light of the world)? If we do, then, we would be seen as ‘just Christians’ by the world
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
+2348062162220
mrbenisreal.blogspot.com
Over the years, Christians have unequivocally depicted hypocrisy in various which no doubts have questioned the ground and pillar of all divine truths, the church. Granted, some Christians would obviously not want to read this write-up, perhaps, owing to its not-encouraging undertones. However, it is the truth that we know that sets us free, as Christians. Therefore, we will consider seven recognized wrong acts associated with Christians.
To begin with, a wrong act many Christians are fond of is the ‘Sunday-Sunday’ call to service. As a matter of obligation, they have taken the responsibility to attend church services only on the Holy day, Sunday, perhaps, owing to their background and influence of other people .In a way, they see Christianity as a routine and the church as the platform where such a routine can be excercised.However, what they fail to realize is that Christianity is no religion but a lifestyle which must be cultivated on a daily basis to appreciate its eternal existence.
Second, ‘chameleon’ Christians frown at what they do best outside the enclosure of the church-pre-marital sex and adultery. Whence these issues are mentioned, they frown, a sign of insecurity and guilt, apparently taking offences at the words spoken by the preacher. Really, these are what they do when not in church. They claim the ‘holier than thou’ attitude.
Besides, many Christians are fond of deliberately committing different forms of ‘notice-me’ services. In fact, they commit themselves to certain functions that draw the attention of their superiors in church for the sake of favours and other attachments. Once they get what they so desire, they disappear into thin air! What a pity!
Moreover, in churches, it is noticeable that a number of Christians keep caucuses that recognize themselves as groups in the church, instead of playing equal host to all other members of the congregation, irrespective of status. Though they seem to treat other members of the church fairly well, they are realistically self-centered as the groups they come under are concerned about themselves rather than the interests of other members.
Furthermore, many single ladies who are Christians become suspiciously dedicated to the affairs of the church with the aim of settling down with their discerned ‘Mr. Rights’. There are several instances were ladies who succeed in attaining their motives abruptly avoid and in no time, completely stop attending church services.
As a matter of fact, some Christians have succeeded in creating amongst themselves enmity by destructively criticizing the derogating the actions of their fellow brethren and even their spiritual leaders. Funny enough, they camouflage themselves as ‘meant-for-good’ Christians but realistically pose more harm than good. They oppose certain activities done in the church by their superiors and other brethren. On a second thought, if critically looked into, we will discover that the reasons for their opposition do not hold waters!
Quite a lot of Christians are on the exodus of seeking for perfect or ideal churches. Interestingly, they claim to be active members of their currently attended churches. However, they spiritually prostitute themselves from one church to the other in search of the perfect church of their choice. They fail to come to the recognition that there are no ideal churches and until they strive together with other Bible-believing Christians towards perfecting themselves as the church, that is, the body of Christ, such fugitive exercise will be tantamount to a wild goose chase.
In a nut shell, as Christians, it is about time we obliterated hypocrisy and wholeheartedly embraced the efficacies of the ground and pillar of all truths, the church. Paraphrasing John 4: 23, Jesus asserted that they that worship Him must do so is spirit and in truth. By inference, hypocrisy is carnal and untrue. Hence, in the relentless of pursuit to attain our life-long aspiration, perfection, should we carry along these habits of hypocrisy (Remember, we ought to be the light of the world)? If we do, then, we would be seen as ‘just Christians’ by the world
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
+2348062162220
mrbenisreal.blogspot.com
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