The realionaire's approach to poverty and wealth;the pyramidal concept

First of all, consider the total number of alphabets that make the words ‘poverty’ and ‘wealth’. No doubt, we have a total of 13 alphabets. Let us picture each alphabet as a layer. In all, we have 13 layers. On the other hand, consider a pyramid. Imagine a 13-layer inscription on the pyramid.

Interpreting the Realionaire’s approach to wealth and poverty y, using the pyramidal concept, we will be viewing the strictly the first, mid and apex layers as the positions of people living in poverty, people living in average conditions and individuals who are said to be the world’s richest respectively.

Again, considering the 13-layer inscription in respect to worth, tantamount to monetary evaluations (dollars, the currency name to be used), the three major inscriptions will be defined. The first-layer inscription refers to people who are living on or less than 1/1000th of a thousand dollars (one dollar) on a daily basis. The mid-layer inscription, the position held by the average person, refers to those who are at the 6.5 mean mark, whose worth is basically in thousands of dollars and are able to afford the necessities and luxuries of life at optimum levels. The apex layer refers to the position held by individuals who are not only at the 13th layer but considered the richest in the 13-layer pyramidal inscription and worth several millions, billions and even trillions of dollars.


In a way, the apex layer is a culmination of the collective efforts of other layers, financially, materially and intelligence wise. The mid-layer is somewhat a ‘stagnation’ between the layers leading to the apex and the layers leading to the first layer. The first layer is the ‘suppression’ or ‘pressure mount’ by other layers.

Interestingly, individuals occupying the apex position attain this feat through over-the-years hardwork, dedication, focus, patience, investment, patience, inheritance gathered and determination on legitimate basis and or an illegitimate exploitation of the resources of their subjects, individually or collectively. The mid-layer position is occupied by those who have over the years scaled through the sub-layers and are apparently stuck at the 6.5 mean mark. The first- layer position is occupied by those who appear to be surmounted by them.

Ironically, there is always a constancy; change in the positions of people occupying the first, apex and mid layers. In other words, the individual occupying the first- layer may scale through the layers to the mid or even the apex layer or decide to stay put, the occupant of the mid-layer may scale higher, remain stagnant or drastically decline towards the first-layer. Also, the apex-occupying position holders can scale through even higher; afford to remain at that position and may go down the ladder of the layers to the mid or to worsen matters, the first layer! To justify these facts, there are historic accounts of individuals whose wealth increased and dropped to below-average standards and even poverty levels. In fact, their successes in terms of monetary worth follow the changes in the positions they occupy in the 13-layer pyramidal structure (precisely, individuals, from humble backgrounds, rising to world’s richest business gurus, people from middle-classed families, rising from, dropping to or being stagnant in the layer they find themselves and the ‘rises’ and ‘falls’ of the apex and first-position holders). However, many of us, irrespective of the layer (level of financial space) we find ourselves, anticipate a rise. How can best take that rise?

The Realionaire’s approach is a come-to-stay recognition which provides individuals with advantages to face-lift their worth by climbing steadily through the ladder, layers of financial space, irrespective of opposing circumstances by placing various levels of self investment; knowledge acquisition, empowerment, focus, determination, inspiration, development of relational skill development and a goal-getting orientation which is equivalent to the recognized monetary values (thousands, millions, billions and even trillions).


Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
Ben4realla@yahoo.com
+2348062162220

Seven irrefutable facts associated with business success

Ever wondered why the United States is undoubtedly one of the world’s most successful business nations? Do you know why few individuals attain mega success, even in not-auspicious conditions while others realize a tip of their deserved iceberg? The answer is simple: it is in the demonstrated and not-considered Seven Irrefutable Facts Associated With Business Success. What are they?

The following elucidates in succinct terms the seven irrefutable facts associated with business success.
1) Defining the orientation of the business: The most fundamentally important factor which is inevitable to business success; definition rather than ambiguity. Precisely, establishing business goals; vision and mission statements, aims and objectives are sine qua non, the catalyst starters of business success.
2) Knowledge Acquisition: In consonance with set business goals, reading related and up-to-date business materials; journals, articles, books and other forms of business-disseminated messages, information-consciousness, development of relational skills, relating with individuals in the same business arena; learning lessons from their experiences, their ‘Dos’ and ‘Do-nots’ approach to the business, strengths and weaknesses, seeking for inspiration that breathe intuition and ingenuity are facts associated with business success.
3) Maintaining a positive attitude: The decision to maintain a positive mindset is tantamount to consistency, focus, patience and persistence needed for the continued thriving of the defined business. Owing to certain information which are generally unfavourable, the need to keep a positive psyche becomes essential in order to achieve anticipated business success.
4) Taking calculated risks: Considering the level of knowledge acquired and set goals, success in business is unequivocally made possible by the risks taken. In business dynamics, the statement; ‘leap before you look’ is a motto of successful business men and women. However, a full grasp of acquired knowledge empowers successful business giants to take computed risks in the pursuit of progress in the businesses they engage themselves. No business enterprise have attained eventual mega success and continually thrived with paying the price, taking risks.
5) Minimizing losses and Maximizing profits: A follow-up to the embarked-upon calculated risks, understanding the core of business success lies in the ability to minimize losses and maximize profits. Granted, the essence of any successful business is to realize profit. At times, loss sets in. However, prioritizing maximized profits and limiting to the barest minimum losses are also essential to business success.
6) Taking responsibility for business actions: In the making of an entrepreneur or investor, a chief executive officer or a managing director, certain outcomes of business actions and decisions; low or high turn-over rates, profits or losses, surplus or deficit account reconciliations should be the responsibility of the would-be successful business man or woman, rather than taking excuses for lapses, blaming others for negative imbalances or being too self-concerned (taking credits for all positive business outcomes instead of acknowledging the efforts of others). Instead, through an organized win-win strategy in terms of demonstrating a relational carry-along disposition, business success can be fostered by accepting responsibilities as the business’ ‘watch dog’ for any good or bad outcome and subsequently improving on it or providing its corrections via the co-operation of others.
7) Being investment-minded: This is a mindset, resident in the lives of individuals who want to experience mega business success; setting the pace for others to follow, trailblazers in the endeavours they engage themselves and role models for prospective business men and women. Of all kinds of existing business attachments (employee, self-employed, business owner and investor attachments), the investor attachment is the one whose success in relation to its advantages edge others; pays low taxes, very likely to escape the government debt bracket, gets richer and makes money do the working, permitting privacy to the concerned attaché.


Andrew Carnegie, a one-time U.S president once said: ‘America’s business is business’. Like the American dream, ‘you can be anything that you want to be’, as a (prospective) business man or woman, you can be the business success you are by considering and demonstrating these irrefutable facts.

Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
Ben4realla@yahoo.com
+2348062162220

THE GOVERNMENT AND PEOPLE_ THE EATER, CUTLERIES AND FOOD CONCEPT

More often than not, people, all around the world complain bitterly and assert the importance of their relevance to the state. However, if we are to critically look into the questions: ‘who is the government?’ and ‘who are the people?’, it can be said that the dynamics into the crucial nature of the asked questions are profound. Why?
Quite a number of individuals are of the view a government is an organized socio-political and economic body, consisting of people-elected persons, on-seat political representatives or to-the-throne monarchs and the general masses of a particular geographic entity. On the other hand, the people are seen as the masses that possess rights and obligations to their nations of citizenry. On the contrary, are these definitions potent enough to describe the government and people?
Believe it or not, the government, from the era of the supreme and great Babylonian empire to our present disposition, has been, is and will always be ahead of the people. How and why?
Consider this instance: You had in mind to go to a restaurant nearby, knowing the kind of food delicacy or combination to select from in the waiter’s menu, expenses to be incurred and the kind of cutleries to be used. Of course, you had gotten a picture of what to do at the restaurant based on the plans you have. The cutleries have no idea of being used to get started the eating process. Should there be inconveniences observed when using the cutleries, it would be reasonable of you to request that the waiter provide you another replacement.
This analogy explains the edge of the government has over the people. By analysis, the individual, that is, you, having in mind to go to a nearby restaurant to eat can be construed as the brainwork (intent) of the government to orchestrate certain agenda_politica, economical, social and so on to be executed or passed into law. ‘Knowing the kind of food delicacy or combination to select from…’ can be interpreted as government-set array of targets or goals that can be attained within the bounds of its sovereignty. The ‘cutleries’ refer to the people. The ‘picture’ pinpoints at the visualization of how realizable set government strategies are (analogous to the individual having in mind to eat at the restaurant). By implication, the cutleries, having no idea of being used to get started the eating process refers to the oblivion of the people towards the government’s intended plans. Asking the waiter to replace the use of cutleries because of inconveniences observed means the government has the power to ‘replace’ certain people who obstruct or impede the actualization of its objectives. The government is also ware of the sacrifice to be made or price to be paid to realize its goals. Hence, the phrase, ‘… expenses to be incurred…’ ‘… The kind of cutleries to be used’ simply refers to a set or group of individuals that will not only pose problems to governmental decisions and plans but will carry out to the letter its orchestrations. The food delicacy or combination refers to certain activities, dues, and other interests that the people are to offer; tax payment, productivity, civic duties and other domestic and professional expenses.
In all, the government is ahead of its citizens (subjects), courtesy of information advantage (similar to having in mind to eat at the restaurant and subsequent actions toward realizing it without the knowing of the cutleries!). Information advantage is originally of its own laid-down standards and appreciation of the quality of information, possessed by exceptional people in a ‘crowd’ of masses by ‘specially’ setting them aside to join its train of dominance thereby toting to its reservoir of ‘for-all-ages’ quality information.



Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
Ben4realla@yahoo.com
+2348062162220

SEVEN RARELY TOLD TRUTHS ABOUT PRE-MARITAL SEX

The following point at the irrefutable assertions that immensely constitute rarely told assertions on pre-marital sex (before-marriage sexual intercourse), as they affect relationships and marriages of individuals involved.
1) People, especially women, who had engaged in sex-linked relationships, were really used as sex objects, a tool for sexual gratification. Like a disposable medical syringe, they were ‘used’ and ‘dumped’ by their partners.
2) If not of a truly chaste disposition, rarely can you find a man not cheating on his wife (vice versa), with or without each other knowing.
3) Given a space of ten chances, a man who is not of a truly chaste character, either in a relationship or married, the possibility he will not cheat on his wife is tentatively two out of ten, at most. On the other hand, for a woman portraying the same character, whether she is in a relationship or married, the possibility, given the same condition is tentatively four out of ten, at most.
4) The moment an unmarried lady allows herself to be sexually touched by a man outside the context of marriage has made herself replaceable; likely to be treated like and substituted for other ‘better’ women
5) If not particularly careful, an habitual fornicator will become an adulterer or adulteress
6) As a result of engaging in pre-marital sex, most married women end up ‘sharing’ their husbands with other women, preferably younger, knowingly or unknowingly. Just as what happens to soldiers who embark on an onslaught against their opposition in the field of battle without necessarily protecting their units, women who are aware of their husbands’ illicit affairs with women will go out, leaving their homes, all in the name of marital security (protecting their husbands from the hands of intruders).You can answer for yourself what happens to their homes. The oblivious women will, until they get to unearth their husbands’ can of worms with other women, abuse the sanctity of their marriages while protecting their homes.
7) Nature has an order. It is an arrangement. For instance, what you sow, you shall reap. A not-chaste man who marries a chaste woman is like a car driver headed for a ghastly marital accident (vice versa). Nature is an equilibrium set-up on its own
Therefore, to combat the consequences of fornication, there must be a practically changed persona and ability to use the spiritual in terms of fervent prayers to ‘uproot’ the initially sown seed of fornication. Let he who has ears, let him hear and let he who has eyes, let him see
Ihekuna chimezie benedict

AUTHOR INFORMATION

NAME OF AUTHOR: IHEKUNA CHIMEZIE BENEDICT
TITLE OF BOOK: AN OVERVIEW OF ENGI (O) SOPHY… A PAHSE OF TRUE MODERNIZATION
E-MAIL ADDRESS BEN4REALLA@YAHOO.COM

ABOUT THE BOOK
Humans, plants, animals and other existing non-living entities can be found in a ‘name’ called the world. Simply, the world is physically and generally accepted name given to the mentioned entities found in it. Picture a situation where all human recognition, that is, fields of interest, are found in one name_ a name given to all fields of human endeavour.
This masterpiece gives an of the importance of the overview of the come-to-stay Engi (o) sophy through the following recognition
1) The Inspiration_Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)-The general public perspective: It sheds light using an appropriate approach mechanism to better explain issues affecting the commoner and the general public, for instance, poverty.
2) The Inspiration_Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs) _The educational/academic perspective: This aimed at serving as an upgrading or improving aid of the education sector of any nation, especially at tertiary levels, willing to give it an ‘embrace’.
3) The Inspiration_Driven Ideological Discoveries (I-DIDs)_The practical perspective :It is a ‘see-me-through’ (version) of the paper-written Engi(o)sophy. It is aimed at giving every Tom, Dick and Harry a conviction of Engi (o) sophy’s dynamics.
An overview of Engi (o) sophy is a must-have and must-read classic which cuts across all races, status and backgrounds.Engi (o) sophy is the re-definition of all mankind’s recognized interests, a phase of true modernization on the grounds of creative wisdom. It simply means ‘Continuum (continued improvement or modification) Of Intricacies’ and a direct translation of ‘Creative Wisdom’.
Date of manuscript completion; October 18, 2008
Year of Birth: July 12, 1984
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WHAT YOU DO NOT KNOW ABOUT YOUR MAN and WHAT YOU DO NOT KNOW ABOUT YOUR WOMAN

To be realistic, what do you know about your man? How well are you grounded in terms of information you have about him? Do you know his past experiences, his present dealings and future plans? Based on what you know, what makes you think he is your Mr. .Right? What attracted him to you? Remember, men are generally moved by what they see.
Without a doubt, three basic things unquestionably attract people that is, money or expressed property, sex and religion or spirituality. However, our attention is on the male gender.
To begin with, more often than not, what attracts men to ladies is possession of financial or material resources. In a sense, men get lured to women, willing to ‘spoil’ them by extravagantly lavishing them with what they desire. The naturally logic-driven men outsmart them, if it is observed that the money-spinning ladies they are in relationships with are not exhibiting a financially ostentatious disposition as they used to. Sometimes, owing to material possession the ladies have at their disposal, they arguably marry them and subsequently wait for the slightest opportunity to file divorce suits in order to part away with financial fortunes. To be frank, if you are rich, are sure your so-called Mr. Right is in a relationship with or married to you because of what you physically possess?
Second, the issue of sexuality is undoubtedly a factor that attracts quite a number of men to ladies. The inability of most men to properly manage their sexuality has inevitably forced them into engaging in self-gratifying relationships with different women. In fact, some men engage in relationships with women solely for sex, not knowing that such ground is transient. Hence, demise in relationship or marriage ensues amongst them. Personally, is your man keeping his fidelity for you alone?
Furthermore, spirituality is one of the major factors that attract men to different women. Some men are unfortunately not serious about spiritual affairs. Some are but others use the multi-faceted-in-nature issue as guise to ‘get’ their Mrs. Rights. After executing this figured-out aim, they call it ‘quit’ to compulsory spiritual commitments. Is your man truly spiritually conscious?
To crown it all, the potencies of answers given to the previously asked questions can be demonstrated using the yardsticks, the three basic forces of physical attraction
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
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Seven Wrongs Associated With Christians

In many churches, there are ways which many Christians apparently depict hospitality and a ‘worth-it’ welcome to visitors. Not bad per se, the ‘welcome’ and special treatments, so-called love feasts administered to new church comers, follow-ups and other necessary welfare packages leave much to be desired. The question is: ‘Are they really portraying the true Christian character?’
Over the years, Christians have unequivocally depicted hypocrisy in various which no doubts have questioned the ground and pillar of all divine truths, the church. Granted, some Christians would obviously not want to read this write-up, perhaps, owing to its not-encouraging undertones. However, it is the truth that we know that sets us free, as Christians. Therefore, we will consider seven recognized wrong acts associated with Christians.
To begin with, a wrong act many Christians are fond of is the ‘Sunday-Sunday’ call to service. As a matter of obligation, they have taken the responsibility to attend church services only on the Holy day, Sunday, perhaps, owing to their background and influence of other people .In a way, they see Christianity as a routine and the church as the platform where such a routine can be excercised.However, what they fail to realize is that Christianity is no religion but a lifestyle which must be cultivated on a daily basis to appreciate its eternal existence.
Second, ‘chameleon’ Christians frown at what they do best outside the enclosure of the church-pre-marital sex and adultery. Whence these issues are mentioned, they frown, a sign of insecurity and guilt, apparently taking offences at the words spoken by the preacher. Really, these are what they do when not in church. They claim the ‘holier than thou’ attitude.
Besides, many Christians are fond of deliberately committing different forms of ‘notice-me’ services. In fact, they commit themselves to certain functions that draw the attention of their superiors in church for the sake of favours and other attachments. Once they get what they so desire, they disappear into thin air! What a pity!
Moreover, in churches, it is noticeable that a number of Christians keep caucuses that recognize themselves as groups in the church, instead of playing equal host to all other members of the congregation, irrespective of status. Though they seem to treat other members of the church fairly well, they are realistically self-centered as the groups they come under are concerned about themselves rather than the interests of other members.
Furthermore, many single ladies who are Christians become suspiciously dedicated to the affairs of the church with the aim of settling down with their discerned ‘Mr. Rights’. There are several instances were ladies who succeed in attaining their motives abruptly avoid and in no time, completely stop attending church services.
As a matter of fact, some Christians have succeeded in creating amongst themselves enmity by destructively criticizing the derogating the actions of their fellow brethren and even their spiritual leaders. Funny enough, they camouflage themselves as ‘meant-for-good’ Christians but realistically pose more harm than good. They oppose certain activities done in the church by their superiors and other brethren. On a second thought, if critically looked into, we will discover that the reasons for their opposition do not hold waters!
Quite a lot of Christians are on the exodus of seeking for perfect or ideal churches. Interestingly, they claim to be active members of their currently attended churches. However, they spiritually prostitute themselves from one church to the other in search of the perfect church of their choice. They fail to come to the recognition that there are no ideal churches and until they strive together with other Bible-believing Christians towards perfecting themselves as the church, that is, the body of Christ, such fugitive exercise will be tantamount to a wild goose chase.
In a nut shell, as Christians, it is about time we obliterated hypocrisy and wholeheartedly embraced the efficacies of the ground and pillar of all truths, the church. Paraphrasing John 4: 23, Jesus asserted that they that worship Him must do so is spirit and in truth. By inference, hypocrisy is carnal and untrue. Hence, in the relentless of pursuit to attain our life-long aspiration, perfection, should we carry along these habits of hypocrisy (Remember, we ought to be the light of the world)? If we do, then, we would be seen as ‘just Christians’ by the world
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
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About my intended books and me

ABOUT THE INTENDED BOOK TITLES AND AUTHOR
(IF CONSIDERED FOR PUBLICATION)
The following are a list of my intended book titles, about them and me.
1) An Overview Of Engi(o)sohy
2) The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries(The general public perspective)
3) The Inspiration_Driven Ideological Discoveries(The educational/academic perspective)
4) The Inspiration_Driven Ideological Discoveries(Its Practical approach)
5) Come To Think Of It Sex!
6) Postulation Of The Sex Arithmetic And The Way Forward
7) Sexually, Are You Worth Being Faithful TO?
8) Who Are Your Friends?
9) HOUSEWIFERY....Giving the role of home-makers an academic and professional ‘touch’
10) The Most Outstanding Quality Of The Mind
11) A Trip To The World Of Mr. Death
An Overview Of Engi (O) sophy
Humans, plants, animals and non-living entities can be found in an entity called the world. Similarly, picture a situation where all fields of human recognition, presently known and the yet-to-come ones are found in an entity. What is that ‘entity’? This book explains the come-to-stay Engi (o) sophy, aimed at re-defining the human recognition of interests, as a term that sees creativity as the space in which humanity’s calling can be excercised.An Overview Of Engi (o) sophy gives generally interesting versions of its recognition.
The Inspiration_Driven Ideological Discoveries, the general public perspective; issues that affect the commoner are acknowledged and uniquely treated to provide individuals with the threshold of rightly abating challenges. An example is poverty.
The Inpsiration_Driven Ideological Discoveries(I-DIDs), the academic/educational perspective; It serves as an improving or upgrading aid to education sector, especially at tertiary levels, of any country willing to give it a come-to-stay embrace.
The Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries, its practical approach; It is a ‘see-me-through’ of the paper-written Engi (o) sophy. It is a model for nations to emulate in terms of its outstanding approach to handling world-recognized issues and serves as means for employment.
An Overview Of Engi (O) sophy paves the way for readers to have not only clues of the versions connotes but also passionately crave for them. It’s worth reading and having...Just grab a copy!
About The Author
Mr. Ben is the leading pioneer of the prospective BEngi (0) sophy Initiative, a concept aimed at implementing the statements of Engi (o) sophy. He has written several yet-to-be published book titles; The most Outstanding Quality Of The Mind, A Trip To The World Of Mr. Death, Come To think Of It, Sex !, Who Are Your Friends? and so on. He lives in Lagos, Nigeria with his family.

I-DIDs, The General Public Perspective
This is a marketable version of Engi (o) sophy that touches issues that affect the commoner, irrespective of status or conviction. It is two-titled book_the ‘real’ title, Engi(o)sophy and the ‘apparent’ title, the Inspiration-Driven Ideological Discoveries(I-DIDs).As the reader progresses in the reading of this masterpiece, the clarity of the ‘real’ title will be appreciated.
The two-titled work deals with the re-definition of different issues of interests. Though it acknowledges the viewpoints of people on certain issues, it makes vivid the need to better tackle and view them in the light of what they truly are. For instance, the terms ‘poverty’ and ‘life’. It is believed that poverty is the lack or absence of necessity but in the recognition of this classic, it is the state of Putting Various Enslaving Reasoning Through Yielding. Also, the term ‘life’, in the light of Engi (o) sophy is seen as Living Is Fully Encompassing. How?

If you really want to know more, just grab it!

I-DIDs the academic/educational perspective
The two-titled classic is a d consideration. It development that merits immense consideration .It serves as an upgrading or improving aid any country’s education system, especially at tertiary level. It seeks to integrate all fields of academic recognition from the sciences (pure and social) to the various engineering disciplines and by extension, the various sectors of a nation; agriculture, banking, manufacturing and so on in the recognition of itself.
If you can get a copy of this book, you would be better for it

I-DIDs, Its Practical Approach/Perspective
This is a ‘see-me-through’ of the paper-written Engi(o)sophy.It is intended to serve as model for nations to emulate in terms of its distinct approach to handling pertinent global issues and conceptualized approach towards viewing better certain issues of interest.
It elaborates the ‘country-in-a-building’ project which has the name N.E.W, that is, National of the Emancipated World the physical structure of an eagle bird with iis feet ‘cemented’ to the ground and wings spread apart, with each features representing important interests(for instance, the eye is the media). It creates employment for people.
Come To Think Of It, Sex!
Come To think Of It, Sex! Is an intended adult-based mini-sized book which is aimed at re-orientating people, irrespective of gender, the right appropriation of sex in terms of its appreciation ....marriage. With creatively designed chapters, it gives the reader not only a sense of appreciation but an urge to ‘thirst’ for more. The creatively designed chapters are the spell-outs of sex, that is, Simplicity, Eroticism and Experience. It is dedicated to the matured ‘you’!
Postulation Of The Sex arithmetic And The Way Forward
It is a follow-up of Experience, the third quality of sex as discussed in Come To Think Of It, Sex! It is a ‘computable’ equation which asserts the number of times individuals of engaged in sex before marriage, what becomes of them and the way out of sexual entanglement. The postulation is an intended theory that has by its equation thirteen interpretations which give 13 different sex lives of people. Interestingly, each interpretation represents a chapter.

SEXUALLY, ARE YOU WORTH BEING FAITHFUL TO?
The timely classic practically examines sexual infidelity as one of the factors responsible for demise and divorce situations existing amongst individuals around the world.
By using points, analogous to chapters, it uses real-life circumstances as questions to truly assert how sexually faithful the reader is and leaves the answers given in the hands of time. The points could be questions, expressions or phrases. Take for instance; would you uphold faithfulness to your spouse,if given a tempting but favourable offer that you are in dire need of and it will be done such that no one gets to know about it?
It is strongly advised you get yourself and your friends a copy of this mouth-watering recipe!
The Most Outstanding Quality Of The Mind
The work piece pictures the human mind as a typical computer; it receives, ‘processes’ and delivers information, reflected in what we see in our today’s world.
It factually states that the mind is the bridge between existence (things we see) and their functionality (their being significant).Simply, it is a title which sees creativity as the space through which humanity’s calling can be exercised.
The most outstanding quality of the mind is therefore.....just grab a copy!
WHO ARE YOUR FRIENDS?
Do you want to have or know a true friend? Do you really want to experience true friendship? Do you really believe you can establish true friendship with others? If you have friends, who are they, really?
This book answers in concrete terms the questions asked. As a matter of fact, it has a 10-chapter recognition which is a product of the spell out, F-R-I-E-N-D-S-H-I-P, respectively Foundation, Reliability...Profoundity.Get it!
A TRIP TO THE WORLD OF MR. DEATH
Have you considered the acronym MR.NIGER. D? respectively meaning Movement, Respiration, Nutrition, Irritability, Growth, Excretion, Reproduction and Death, the essential characteristics of living things (humans)?
Over the years, science has undoubtedly explained the dynamics of MR.NIGER.D except death. Why death?
This classic gives a clue from a two-dimensional perspective; the natural and meta-natural. Interestingly, they are dependent on one’s conviction.
Do you believe in the physical and or spiritual dimension of death? In the first place, what is meant by the natural and meta-natural viewpoint? Do you want to have a snapshot of what death looks like? Is my conviction physical spiritual or both? Are these statements true?
For answers, read this book. It’s for you!


HOUSEWIFERY
This book showcases the role of home-makers as building blocks of any viable nation. With a succinct approach, it recognizes two perspectives namely academic and professional Housewifery. It is aimed at giving the home-maker a professional and an academic model of the society. Also, female celebrities have a lot to benefit from this.

some of the articles

Articles
The following give a list of articles, ‘snapshots’ of the intended book titles.Simply, they actually convey intended book titles but in form of written articles. They are:
1) Who Are Your Friends?
2) The Most Outstanding Quality Of the Mind
3) A Trip To The World Of Mr. Death
4) GOKIOLI(A neologism from the God kind of life)
5) Certain Thoughts Of The Mind
6) Postulation Of The Sex Arithmetic And The Way Forward
7) Housewifery...Giving the role of home-makers an academic and professional touch.
8) Certain Thoughts Of The Mind
Who Are Your Friends?
‘Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are’.Undoubtedly, this adage is true and used as criterion to assert man’s personality. As a matter of fact, the difference between an individual now and in future is ascertained by the company he or she keeps. What kind of company do you keep?
In our today’s world, people make friends for different reasons and anticipate the best from this venture. Some may seek for happiness while others may seek for encouragement, information or intimacy, their friendship motive. Perhaps, people make friends for encouragement, ignoring support, information, ignoring reliability, intimacy, ignoring dedication. The lists are endless! It can be inferred that most peoples of the world are not really experiencing the completeness of friendship simply because they prioritize their ‘what they want from the venture’ at the expense of others. What is then completeness of friendship? The question can be rephrased as: what is true friendship?
Consider a complete building. A complete building typically comprises of an obviously not-seen foundation, concrete walls, roof tops, beams, pillars, louvers and other essential facilities. Imagine a building without louvers, pillars, roof tops or beams. What do you think will likely occur? The answer to the asked question is analogous to what happens when certain qualities of true friendship are absent. Again, what is true friendship?
Note that when making friends, ensure that the qualities of friendship are salient or exert your ‘good’ qualities to check or balance any discrepancies observed. True friendship is a foundation which is built on by reliability, intimacy, encouragement,’noticeability’, devotion/dedication, support, happiness and information. The foundation is made profound through the appreciation of stated qualities. Also, it is a vital tool necessary for improved network strategy and developmental plans in organizations.
Excerpts of the intended book, titled Who Are Your Friends?
Ihekuna Chimezie.B
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ben4realla@yahoo.com

The Most Outstanding Quality Of The Mind

It amazing how a typical personal computer works: when a particular data or piece of information is inputted, the processor translates the inputted data into a machine readable language and finally delivers it as output through the Visual Display Unit (VDU) or monitor. Similarly, the human mind functions such that when it receives statements (informative creativity), it ‘processes’ (meditates on) them and ‘delivers’ them as ‘outputs’ (services to humanity)
Our modern bridges allow easy accessibility by motorists to cross through what can apparently be seen as ‘the inaccessible routes’. In the same vein, the human mind is bridge between existence and its functionality. In other words, it bridges the gap between things man see and their significance. The question ‘what is the most outstanding quality of the human mind that makes it function similar to a personal computer system and bridge between existence and its functionality?’ comes to focus. The most outstanding quality of the mind is in its spell-outs, that is,
M-Meditating
I-Intensively,
N-Never
D-Declining. Simply, without you, nothing happens!
Excerpts of the intended book, titled The Most Outstanding Quality Of The Mind.
Ihekuna Chimezie B (Mr.Ben)
+2348062162220
ben4realla@yahoo.com

A Trip To The World Of Mr. Death
Do you know the meaning of the acronym MR.NIGER.D? The alphabets respectively stand for Movement, Respiration, Nutrition, Irritability, Growth, Excretion, Reproduction and Death. They characterize living things. However, the attention is the highest (social) animal, man.
Over the years, science, through immense technological breakthrough, has unequivocally depicted the mentioned characteristics as being typical of humans penultimate death. Why? The all-encompassing source of explanations of science is yet to demystify the mystery of death.
We will however take a concise trip to the world known as death. In other words, a ‘snapshot’ would be taken to give a picture of what death connotes. Death may be ‘snapped at’ from two-dimensional perspectives namely the physical (natural) and meta-natural (meta-physical, spiritual) perspectives or viewpoints. They are conviction-dependent.
The natural viewpoint, also known as the physical perspective, refers` to the factors which are associated or causes the ‘cut-off’ of man’s existence. The factors can be explained by two salient concepts namely At-the instant and rate-determined death. At-the-instant death refers to death that occurs at a physical instant. A typical example is the killing of people using sophisticated weapons such as modern guns. By analysis, the term ‘death’ can be seen as the Denial (of) Entities A Thorough Habitation. On the other hand, rate-determined death simply refers to a time-influenced state which gradually wipes off man’s existence. A typical instance is the pandemic effect of the death-threatening HIV on humanity. Therefore, it can be analyzed as Denying Entities A True Habitation.
The meta-physical (meta-natural or spiritual) viewpoint is arguably an extension of the limitation-faced physical viewpoint. Though its efficacy of this dimension is dependent on the conviction or belief of the individual, it is a threshold were different meta-physical or spiritual inclinations can vividly build their doctrinal potency on. In this case, the term ‘death’ can be seen as the Divine Entrance (Exit) from All Thoughts (to the) Higher (from the thought-dominated physical world to the world of timeless freedom of thoughts).
Extracts of the intended book, titled A Trip to the World of Mr. Death.
Ihekuna Chimezie B
+2348062162220
ben4realla@yahoo.com


Postulation Of The Sex Arithmetic And The Way Forward
First and foremost, we consider the phrase ‘Postulation Of The Sex Arithmetic’. This is a postulation which is intended to be theory. It is a ‘computable’ equation that depicts the number of times individuals, irrespective of gender, had engaged before marriage.Interesingly, the ‘computable’ equation has 13 interpretations, representing the sex lives of individuals.
The validity of the equation is dependent on the following statements
1) It can be numerically determined if the concerned individual keeps a sincere up-to-date record of his or her sex activities.
2) It is partly dependent on sex-influenced relationships engaged
3) The first-time sex experience is constant, that is, it has a constant value of man
4) It assumes that the individual would eventually get married by being faithful to his her would-be wife or husband.
Secondly, ‘The Way Forward’ refers to the consequences: insecurity and doubt as unveiled by infidelity, high chances of contracting diseases, pregnancy (the females) before and even after marriage. Also, it explains the ‘way outs’ of the various sex entanglements, the equation-interpreted sex lives.
Inferred excerpts from the intended book, titled Postulation Of Tshe Sex Arithmetic And The Way Forward.
Ihekuna Chimezie B
+2348062162220
ben4realla@yahoo.com

Just A Suggestion
GOKIOLI: A Neologism Of The God Kind Of Life

‘For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whosoever believeth in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life’
John 3:16(KJV)

Our emphasis is on the word ‘everlasting’. Literally, it is synonymous with eternal, forever and timeless. In other words, what the scripture connotes is if man, irrespective of status or culture, can believe in the supremacy of God’s begotten Son, Jesus Christ, he will have the God kind of life; a life that possesses the everlasting, forever or eternal state.
The word ‘everlasting’ as used in this scriptural context derives its root meaning from the Greek word Zoë, meaning the God kind of life_an incorruptible, upright and righteous life. However, there is a conflicting recognition of the word in terms of its usage. How?
The word ‘everlasting’, in this context, is literally ambiguous in the light of the eventual destination of man_heaven and hell. Simply put, ‘everlasting’
can be used in the recognition of man spending his timeless life (eternity) in heaven or hell. It is possible men spends eternity or live an everlasting or eternal life in heaven or hell.
To this day, there is no true English equivalent of the Greek-originated Zoë. Precisely, there is no specific translation of Zoë to English language. Can there be an exact English translation of Zoë?
A suggestion comes into the picture_a neologism (coinage) from the God kind of life. It is an intended replacement or precise (true) translation of the terms used in some versions of the bible; ‘everlasting’, ‘forever’ and ‘eternal’. The coined term is GOKIOLI, meaning the God kind of life or
GO-God
KI-Kind
O-Of
LI-Life.
Therefore, the familiar scripture: ‘For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whosoever believeth in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life now becomes ‘For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whosoever believeth in Him shall not perish but have GOKIOLI’.This is possible only if this neologism is considered. Remember, it is only a suggestion!
Ihekuna Chimezie B
+234806216220
ben4realla@yahoo.com


HOUSEWIFERY
Analogous to mid-wifery, housewifery is a coinage which is aimed at giving the role of home-makers or housewives an academic and professional ‘touch’. It is dedicated to aspiring wives, dedicated mothers and committed housewives. By extension, female celebrities can benefit from the come-to-stay housewifery as it vividly tutors them how to strike a balance between stardom and call-to-duty home-keep.
Housewifery is a term which agrees that the home (a place where the where a family’s recognition is resident) is essential for the continued peace and security of a nation. It is an interest that sees the home as the smallest unit or foundational block of nation building and pictures the woman as the home’s ‘nucleus’. Hence, professionalizing and making academic housewifery is worth considering. Academic housewifery is a curriculum-based recognition which has three major considerations: physical (economic, sexual) empowerment, mental empowerment and spiritual empowerment. Concerned experts; lecturers, academicians or practioners will employ their wealth of experience on these forms of empowerment.
On the other hand, professional housewifery is a recognition and appreciation of a nation’s government incorporating it as one of the ministry of women affairs interest and portraying itself via awarding the most outstanding housewives. The awards given are a time-taken technical exercise devised by experts to evaluate the performances of housewives in various states, communities or localities.
Ponder on these; a true wife is a well-nurtured female or virtuous woman who has painstakingly taken her time to properly nurture herself to embrace patience instead of haste, humility instead of pride, kindness instead of hostility, sincerity instead of falsehood, transparency instead of hypocrisy, education instead of ignorance, spirituality instead of carnality, love instead of hate and fidelity instead of infidelity...
Excerpts from the intended book, titled HOUSEWIFERY
Ihekuna Chimezie B
+2348062162220
ben4realla@yahoo.com




Certain Thoughts Of The Mind
1) Determination without conception is like reaching a destination without intention
2) In youth, we learn but in age, we learn better things we ought to understand in our youth. What an irony!
3) Concrete opportunities, most times, come as disguises. It takes wisdom applying individuals to comprehend them.
4) The school especially at tertiary level should be seen as a platform or threshold where we can decide what is best for us.
5) If LOVE simply means Letting the Offered Value Exist, what value are you really offering to others around you and yourself?
6) You can eat your cake and still have it but you won’t have it the same way you ate it.
7) Perfection is attained when the action of being perfect or making things perfect is demonstrated.
8) Education is the viable means of defining the quality of one’s person, given the right psycho-environmental conditions, actualized by the level of submission the individual yields to the process, learning_an aftermath of it.
9) The only physically sacred, most priced and cherished possession of a woman is her virginity. Without this, she is treated like other women, irrespective of status. Consequences? Insecurity and doubt as unveiled by infidelity and continued fornication and adultery. The way out? A thorough and genuine spiritual overhaul.
Originally an excerpt of ‘the most outstanding quality of the mind’. The statements are drawn from other intended book works by Mr. Ben
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
+2348062162220
ben4realla@yahoo.com












Some Articles Of The Intended Book The following give a list of articles, ‘snapshots’ of the intended book titles.Simply, they actually convey intended book titles but in form of written articles. They are:
1) Who Are Your Friends?
2) The Most Outstanding Quality Of the Mind
3) A Trip To The World Of Mr. Death
4) GOKIOLI(A neologism from the God kind of life)
5) Certain Thoughts Of The Mind
6) Postulation Of The Sex Arithmetic And The Way Forward
7) Housewifery...Giving the role of home-makers an academic and professional touch.
8) Certain Thoughts Of The Mind
Who Are Your Friends?
‘Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are’.Undoubtedly, this adage is true and used as criterion to assert man’s personality. As a matter of fact, the difference between an individual now and in future is ascertained by the company he or she keeps. What kind of company do you keep?
In our today’s world, people make friends for different reasons and anticipate the best from this venture. Some may seek for happiness while others may seek for encouragement, information or intimacy, their friendship motive. Perhaps, people make friends for encouragement, ignoring support, information, ignoring reliability, intimacy, ignoring dedication. The lists are endless! It can be inferred that most peoples of the world are not really experiencing the completeness of friendship simply because they prioritize their ‘what they want from the venture’ at the expense of others. What is then completeness of friendship? The question can be rephrased as: what is true friendship?
Consider a complete building. A complete building typically comprises of an obviously not-seen foundation, concrete walls, roof tops, beams, pillars, louvers and other essential facilities. Imagine a building without louvers, pillars, roof tops or beams. What do you think will likely occur? The answer to the asked question is analogous to what happens when certain qualities of true friendship are absent. Again, what is true friendship?
Note that when making friends, ensure that the qualities of friendship are salient or exert your ‘good’ qualities to check or balance any discrepancies observed. True friendship is a foundation which is built on by reliability, intimacy, encouragement,’noticeability’, devotion/dedication, support, happiness and information. The foundation is made profound through the appreciation of stated qualities. Also, it is a vital tool necessary for improved network strategy and developmental plans in organizations.
Excerpts of the intended book, titled Who Are Your Friends?
Ihekuna Chimezie.B
+2348062162220
ben4realla@yahoo.com

The Most Outstanding Quality Of The Mind

It amazing how a typical personal computer works: when a particular data or piece of information is inputted, the processor translates the inputted data into a machine readable language and finally delivers it as output through the Visual Display Unit (VDU) or monitor. Similarly, the human mind functions such that when it receives statements (informative creativity), it ‘processes’ (meditates on) them and ‘delivers’ them as ‘outputs’ (services to humanity)
Our modern bridges allow easy accessibility by motorists to cross through what can apparently be seen as ‘the inaccessible routes’. In the same vein, the human mind is bridge between existence and its functionality. In other words, it bridges the gap between things man see and their significance. The question ‘what is the most outstanding quality of the human mind that makes it function similar to a personal computer system and bridge between existence and its functionality?’ comes to focus. The most outstanding quality of the mind is in its spell-outs, that is,
M-Meditating
I-Intensively,
N-Never
D-Declining. Simply, without you, nothing happens!
Excerpts of the intended book, titled The Most Outstanding Quality Of The Mind.
Ihekuna Chimezie B (Mr.Ben)
+2348062162220
ben4realla@yahoo.com

A Trip To The World Of Mr. Death
Do you know the meaning of the acronym MR.NIGER.D? The alphabets respectively stand for Movement, Respiration, Nutrition, Irritability, Growth, Excretion, Reproduction and Death. They characterize living things. However, the attention is the highest (social) animal, man.
Over the years, science, through immense technological breakthrough, has unequivocally depicted the mentioned characteristics as being typical of humans penultimate death. Why? The all-encompassing source of explanations of science is yet to demystify the mystery of death.
We will however take a concise trip to the world known as death. In other words, a ‘snapshot’ would be taken to give a picture of what death connotes. Death may be ‘snapped at’ from two-dimensional perspectives namely the physical (natural) and meta-natural (meta-physical, spiritual) perspectives or viewpoints. They are conviction-dependent.
The natural viewpoint, also known as the physical perspective, refers` to the factors which are associated or causes the ‘cut-off’ of man’s existence. The factors can be explained by two salient concepts namely At-the instant and rate-determined death. At-the-instant death refers to death that occurs at a physical instant. A typical example is the killing of people using sophisticated weapons such as modern guns. By analysis, the term ‘death’ can be seen as the Denial (of) Entities A Thorough Habitation. On the other hand, rate-determined death simply refers to a time-influenced state which gradually wipes off man’s existence. A typical instance is the pandemic effect of the death-threatening HIV on humanity. Therefore, it can be analyzed as Denying Entities A True Habitation.
The meta-physical (meta-natural or spiritual) viewpoint is arguably an extension of the limitation-faced physical viewpoint. Though its efficacy of this dimension is dependent on the conviction or belief of the individual, it is a threshold were different meta-physical or spiritual inclinations can vividly build their doctrinal potency on. In this case, the term ‘death’ can be seen as the Divine Entrance (Exit) from All Thoughts (to the) Higher (from the thought-dominated physical world to the world of timeless freedom of thoughts).
Extracts of the intended book, titled A Trip to the World of Mr. Death.
Ihekuna Chimezie B
+2348062162220
ben4realla@yahoo.com


Postulation Of The Sex Arithmetic And The Way Forward
First and foremost, we consider the phrase ‘Postulation Of The Sex Arithmetic’. This is a postulation which is intended to be theory. It is a ‘computable’ equation that depicts the number of times individuals, irrespective of gender, had engaged before marriage.Interesingly, the ‘computable’ equation has 13 interpretations, representing the sex lives of individuals.
The validity of the equation is dependent on the following statements
1) It can be numerically determined if the concerned individual keeps a sincere up-to-date record of his or her sex activities.
2) It is partly dependent on sex-influenced relationships engaged
3) The first-time sex experience is constant, that is, it has a constant value of man
4) It assumes that the individual would eventually get married by being faithful to his her would-be wife or husband.
Secondly, ‘The Way Forward’ refers to the consequences: insecurity and doubt as unveiled by infidelity, high chances of contracting diseases, pregnancy (the females) before and even after marriage. Also, it explains the ‘way outs’ of the various sex entanglements, the equation-interpreted sex lives.
Inferred excerpts from the intended book, titled Postulation Of Tshe Sex Arithmetic And The Way Forward.
Ihekuna Chimezie B
+2348062162220
ben4realla@yahoo.com

Just A Suggestion
GOKIOLI: A Neologism Of The God Kind Of Life

‘For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whosoever believeth in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life’
John 3:16(KJV)

Our emphasis is on the word ‘everlasting’. Literally, it is synonymous with eternal, forever and timeless. In other words, what the scripture connotes is if man, irrespective of status or culture, can believe in the supremacy of God’s begotten Son, Jesus Christ, he will have the God kind of life; a life that possesses the everlasting, forever or eternal state.
The word ‘everlasting’ as used in this scriptural context derives its root meaning from the Greek word Zoë, meaning the God kind of life_an incorruptible, upright and righteous life. However, there is a conflicting recognition of the word in terms of its usage. How?
The word ‘everlasting’, in this context, is literally ambiguous in the light of the eventual destination of man_heaven and hell. Simply put, ‘everlasting’
can be used in the recognition of man spending his timeless life (eternity) in heaven or hell. It is possible men spends eternity or live an everlasting or eternal life in heaven or hell.
To this day, there is no true English equivalent of the Greek-originated Zoë. Precisely, there is no specific translation of Zoë to English language. Can there be an exact English translation of Zoë?
A suggestion comes into the picture_a neologism (coinage) from the God kind of life. It is an intended replacement or precise (true) translation of the terms used in some versions of the bible; ‘everlasting’, ‘forever’ and ‘eternal’. The coined term is GOKIOLI, meaning the God kind of life or
GO-God
KI-Kind
O-Of
LI-Life.
Therefore, the familiar scripture: ‘For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whosoever believeth in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life now becomes ‘For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whosoever believeth in Him shall not perish but have GOKIOLI’.This is possible only if this neologism is considered. Remember, it is only a suggestion!
Ihekuna Chimezie B
+234806216220
ben4realla@yahoo.com


HOUSEWIFERY
Analogous to mid-wifery, housewifery is a coinage which is aimed at giving the role of home-makers or housewives an academic and professional ‘touch’. It is dedicated to aspiring wives, dedicated mothers and committed housewives. By extension, female celebrities can benefit from the come-to-stay housewifery as it vividly tutors them how to strike a balance between stardom and call-to-duty home-keep.
Housewifery is a term which agrees that the home (a place where the where a family’s recognition is resident) is essential for the continued peace and security of a nation. It is an interest that sees the home as the smallest unit or foundational block of nation building and pictures the woman as the home’s ‘nucleus’. Hence, professionalizing and making academic housewifery is worth considering. Academic housewifery is a curriculum-based recognition which has three major considerations: physical (economic, sexual) empowerment, mental empowerment and spiritual empowerment. Concerned experts; lecturers, academicians or practioners will employ their wealth of experience on these forms of empowerment.
On the other hand, professional housewifery is a recognition and appreciation of a nation’s government incorporating it as one of the ministry of women affairs interest and portraying itself via awarding the most outstanding housewives. The awards given are a time-taken technical exercise devised by experts to evaluate the performances of housewives in various states, communities or localities.
Ponder on these; a true wife is a well-nurtured female or virtuous woman who has painstakingly taken her time to properly nurture herself to embrace patience instead of haste, humility instead of pride, kindness instead of hostility, sincerity instead of falsehood, transparency instead of hypocrisy, education instead of ignorance, spirituality instead of carnality, love instead of hate and fidelity instead of infidelity...
Excerpts from the intended book, titled HOUSEWIFERY
Ihekuna Chimezie B
+2348062162220
ben4realla@yahoo.com




Certain Thoughts Of The Mind
1) Determination without conception is like reaching a destination without intention
2) In youth, we learn but in age, we learn better things we ought to understand in our youth. What an irony!
3) Concrete opportunities, most times, come as disguises. It takes wisdom applying individuals to comprehend them.
4) The school especially at tertiary level should be seen as a platform or threshold where we can decide what is best for us.
5) If LOVE simply means Letting the Offered Value Exist, what value are you really offering to others around you and yourself?
6) You can eat your cake and still have it but you won’t have it the same way you ate it.
7) Perfection is attained when the action of being perfect or making things perfect is demonstrated.
8) Education is the viable means of defining the quality of one’s person, given the right psycho-environmental conditions, actualized by the level of submission the individual yields to the process, learning_an aftermath of it.
9) The only physically sacred, most priced and cherished possession of a woman is her virginity. Without this, she is treated like other women, irrespective of status. Consequences? Insecurity and doubt as unveiled by infidelity and continued fornication and adultery. The way out? A thorough and genuine spiritual overhaul.
Originally an excerpt of ‘the most outstanding quality of the mind’. The statements are drawn from other intended book works by Mr. Ben
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
+2348062162220
ben4realla@yahoo.com
11 MAJOR DECEPTIONS YOU MUST GUARD YOURSELF AGAINST...
In our today’s world, there are certain statements we hear either from the mass media, our peers or other sources which have undoubtedly formed part and parcel of our mindset. As a matter of fact, information we listen to have over the years unequivocally eaten deep form the root of our growing years of childhood and youth to the stable period of adulthood. Consequently, these statements are saliently expressed and understood words of deception which have affected our dealings with people. Therefore, the need to ‘guard’ ourselves form deceptions is at this point necessary. ‘What are the deceptions?’ A question you may want to ask.

Our case study is centered on deceptions that have to do with social interactions involving people. In other words, relationships existing between and or amongst individuals (of opposite sex) and married couples have unarguably been hijacked by the device known as deception thereby truncating the meant-to-be marital bliss and true intimacy that exist. Hence, there are fact_based records of demise in relationships amongst individuals (celebrities inclusive), broken homes, estranged and divorce cases amongst married couples.

At this juncture, it is essential we recognize eleven major deceptions that must prevented to ensure an enduring, a beneficial and blissful relationship. Precisely, we must ‘sieve’ the information we receive as means of safeguarding ourselves from the clutches of deception. The deceptions are listed below;

Deception 1: It is no big deal loosing your virginity

Deception2: It is good to feel the ‘sweetness’ of sex action by engaging different partners into it.

Deception3: The bad girls ‘get’ or end up marrying the good guys (vice versa)

Deception4: He or She has a sexually not-good past but will change, though is still in the habit of flirting

Deception 5: As men, it is normal to give into sexual advances from women, whether married or not.

Deception 6: When there is money, it will be safe to get married

Deception 7: Divorce is normal

Deception8 Love is blind

Deception 9: As a married man or woman, I can still keep an intimate company of bachelor or spinster friends.

Deception 10: Till the right man or woman comes will I become sexually faithful.

Deception 11: Things will change only if I am married.

In a nutshell, to experience a healthy relationship with your spouse, whether married or not, it is paramount you guard yourselves from these blindfolds known as deceptions.

Excerpts from the intended book, titled 11 Major Deceptions You Must Guard Yourself Against…
As Written By: Mr.Ben
FIND YOUR WIFE IN THE NUMBER OF WOMEN



The issue of marriage is primarily choice-driven. Just as it is optional to attain university education, so it is to get married. Over the years, men, out of choice, have fashioned out different criteria to selecting their so-called wives in a bevy of ladies. However, these criteria have arguably not yielded results anticipated as some married men seem not to appreciate the essence of staying married. This is due to the fact that their wives are not really what they are. Only if they could truly find their 'wives' in an arena of women, they would be singing a positive song.

Precisely, men who thought they married wives soon realize that they are in a life-long union with potential 'baby-producing machines' who do not know what it really means to be called wives. What do you expect when the approach by men to this issue is generally trivial? The criteria (what men arguably desire) are unequivocally hard nut to crack in nature because of the complexities involved. People have used several yardsticks such as beauty, financial empowerment, intelligence and other earthly trivialities to 'select' their wives-to-be. The efficacy of men-invented standards are questionable in the light of truly finding a wife in a women-dominated atmosphere. Simply, what men model as typical wife-fits are just the exact opposites!

Nonetheless, most marriage-concerned men clamour for their Mrs. Rights (wives) in a world of surrounded by women. The question 'how do you find your find in a number of women?' comes to focus.

In theory, a complex mathematical problem involves a follow-up of the appropriate method in order to find the correct solution. The issue of finding a wife in the number of women is analogous to this instance. It involves a' specific' approach to finding a right or virtuous woman who can be called a wife. Unfortunately, people deviate from the 'specific' approach and devise arbitrary means (trivial ways) to find their so-called wives. In the first place, what do you expect the outcome will be? Just as the result gotten when an arbitrary approach is used to solve a complex mathematical problem, the same will result when people find their wives using trivial means. What should be the 'specific' approach to find a wife in the number of women?

You were given a time of ninety seconds to select (in a bag containing three hundred balls of different colours with white stripes) the ball; the red ball that has the highest number of white stripes. Remember, there are over eighty red balls with white stripes and the red ball must be picked directly from the bag. If you can select the particular red ball within the stipulated time limit, you will be handsomely rewarded with a cash prize of $2m. What an offer but at the same time, what a difficult one! In the same vein, the issue' finding your wife in a number of women' is a more difficult task. Usually, most people will go about finding the most distinct red ball through mathematically identifying with probability. Granted, you could get red ball white stripes, the likelihood of getting the most distinct red ball is almost uncertain. Although the red ball picked shares similar properties with the distinct one, they are not the same. Similarly, most men have played the game of 'probability' to find their wives. They may succeed in 'getting' the good ones but they (the good ones) cannot be the same as the better ones, though they share some virtues in common. No thanks to the time limit of youthful activeness!

Proverbs 18:22 says 'whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour from God" (KJV). From this, it implies that marriage is a matter of personal decision (compare with the first sentence in the first paragraph). Great philosophers whose teachings are still followed by 'convinced' disciple at a point asked thoughtful questions into the intricacies of what made life, the universe and the entirety of all divine truths peculiar. Hence, they were inspired to postulate and hold onto 'believed facts' and subsequently had students (followers) who believed in them. In the same vein, the 'specific' approach deals with seeking the divine presence of God to guide you, providing you with wisdom-fathomed questions with anticipated and resonating sincerity-based answers given by the woman you seem to deem as your wife-to-be. The perspectives in which the wisdom-fathomed questions may cut across include the following:

1) Sexuality( her approach to managing her sexuality; level of fidelity, practically learnt lessons from past relationships, if engaged, etc)
2) Finance/Material needs/Money( money-s pending habit, attention to money matters, how financially and materially supportive she is etc)
3) Emotional/Mental/Psychological empowerment( intellect, goal orientation, ability to establish interpersonal relationships, temperamental adaptation,sociable,tolerate or bear strenuous conditions etc)
4) Spirituality(observing prayers, her in-depth practical knowledge of God's word in terms of application, her level of faith, submission, obedience etc)
Marriage is a union which ought to be seen as an eternity-on-earth recognition. In other words, marriage is an institution whose longevity is dependent on the days on earth of the parties involved; beginning from the time the nuptial knots is annunciated to their dying day. However, many married people are not leaving up to what it ought to be. Why?
Marriage, the union between a man and woman, becoming husband and wife, is in itself longevity-based which must be built on an eternal foundation for its success to be experienced and enjoyed. On what eternal foundation must marriage be built?
Marital success is measured by its longevity. And people who will and/or experiencing a successful marriage are those who are prepared. It is said: ‘it takes two to tango’. A tango is a dance involving two active dance performers to demonstrate it. Without their active involvement, then the tango dance is a failure. Similarly, this accounts for the reason people does not experience successful marriages. They are not actively performing, unprepared or incompetent to demonstrate what a successful marriage is. Therefore, if you really want to experience a successful marriage, it is advisable for you to find your husband or wife in a number of men or women. If you really think you have found your ‘missing rib’ or ‘Mr. Right’, then let us lay the foundation of marital success!
It is interesting to reason that some people marry for trivial reasons and as a result, divorce for trivial reasons. They fail to realize it is one thing to get married and it is a different ball game to stay married. Simply, they cannot afford to stay married_ they do not have practical ideas of staying married. Afterall, a well dug and laid foundation will withstand the ‘burdens’ of a mansion but a shallow and sandy foundation is not expected to withstand the forces of such an erect structure. The reason many people cannot appreciate in its length and breadth the essence of marriage is that they have trivialized their marital foundation (money, sex, sympathy and other material gains) in anticipation that it would withstand marital challenges instead of figuring out the eternal foundation necessary for a successful marriage.
The root of a successful marriage which marriage-conscious individuals must lay is true love. Primarily, true love is an eternity-on-earth value that makes married couples stay married, no matter what ensues. Simply put, true love is the foundation of a successful marriage. It is translated as the longevity of marriage, that is,
True love translates to longevity of marriage
Longevity in marriage=Longevity in (Trust + Communication)
=Longevity in Trust + Longevity in Communication
Trust is simply the Total Reliance Upon Someonelse’s Truths (fidelity, submission, supportiveness, patience, wisdom and so on) and communication is the voiced complement or recognition of trust.
A tentative observation and extrapolation assert: At most, twenty percent of the world’s population that are married are experiencing and will experience a successful marriage. On the other hand, at least, eighty percent of the world’s population is staying married in the light of anticipated divorce, separation, bitterness, regrets and insecurity and doubt.
Ihekuna Chimezie Benedict
+2348062162220
Ben4realla@yahoo.com
THE STATES OF THE MIND
There are different states that make a country. In other words, a country comprises of several states. Similarly, there are various states that constitute the mind. The nature of the mind is dependent on its states it recognizes.
'The quality of our thoughts affects the quality of our action'. Without a doubt, this is very factual. We become what we think. Of course, the most outstanding quality of the mind is Meditating Intensively, Never Declining. By implication, the quality of our thoughts is manifested in this mind quality and translated as actions. Also important, the quality of thoughts is made possible courtesy of the states of the mind.
As case study, we are considering the United States of America. The US has 52 states (Washington DC inclusive), mainly the northern and southern protectorates. In the same vein, there are different 'states' that make the country called the mind. Just as many states are created in many countries, many states are also created in the mind. Travels from one state of a country to another state of the same country are made possible through the means of convenient system of transportation to surmount constraints or difficult-by-nature boundaries. This is akin to the transition of one state of the mind to the other through the boundary known as decision.
Analogous to the previously asserted northern and southern protectorates of the US, we have mainly the 'upper' (positive, greater) and 'lower' (negative, lesser) dimensions of the mind. In the 'upper' and 'lower' dimensions, there are several states but for convenience, we are considering (each) nine states. Nonetheless, more states can be 'created', added. For the 'upper' dimension, we have: faith, success, joy, abundance, health, love, security, truth and wisdom. Also, we have for the 'lower' dimension fear, failure, pain, poverty, disease, hatred, lies, stealing and folly.
Transition from one state of the mind to the other is dependent on the quality of decision made which is a function of the most outstanding quality of the mind. For instance, if an individual wants 'travel' from the state of folly to wisdom, then such a transition would have to be made lucid via a made-decision that greatly depends on the rumination over, thought of and illumination on (identities, associated with Meditating Intensively) the state, folly, the individual's residence in terms of benefits, limits and practical potencies. By evaluation, there is a movement (decision) that surmounts challenges or oppositions in reaching the state of wisdom.Eventually, the state of wisdom will voice herself in action! Undoubtedly, this is made possible by the complementing Never Declining quality of the mind.
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The article vesion of the intended book, titled WAHT MUST BE CONSIDERED FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE